Fear becomes such a security blanket in itself - we feel the need to tense up, as if to brace ourselves for whatever may be around the corner. It's as if letting our guard down for a minute would open us up to a whole slough of new fears and dangers.
But I've been offered this gift of freedom from fear - why don't I take it?
Not only a slough of new fears and dangers, but possibly a "slough of disappointment"?
ReplyDeleteToo true, my friend. The relationship disrupting human condition to cling to what feels comfortable, even when we know in our heads that letting go brings so much more freedom.